ABout Ashley

Holistic Intimacy & Sex Relationship Coach

Hi, I’m Ashley!

I help every day people find erotic fulfillment and outstanding relationships so they can realize their dream lives, powered by pleasure and possibility.

I help singles and couples breakthrough intimacy and communication barriers using a variety of evidence-based, tantric and other techniques in order to enrich and improve their relationships with self and others. My areas of focus include sexual empowerment, overcoming vaginismus, dating mindset coaching, sex love psychology education, reviving couples’ sex lives and emotional intelligence education and my work occurs online and in person. Additionally, I host regular practitioner gatherings for peers to share knowledge, experience and wisdom plus free events for potential customers who are curious and not yet ready to invest financially, which fulfills my desire to provide more accessible community services in the field.

-Ashley Encantada, San Francisco Sex Therapist

If you’re reading this, it’s because you’re looking to take your love life from dull to delectable and you might even be wondering what is holding you back. You probably feel something just below the surface of your skin yearning to been seen and make a break through. I know this feeling - it’s why I started on this journey in the first place.

My clients get what they want out of life, love and sex because I successfully help guide them into their deepest desires, even when they don’t know what they want or how to say it. They find more exciting, inspiring and empowered partnerships and they have juicier & more fulfilling sex lives because we unlock past pains and turn them into power and pleasure!

I started this work because I kept seeing myself making the same or similar mistakes in my dating and intimate life and kept attracting people who were simply not the partners of my dreams. I wanted something deeper, more connected, more easeful and secure while still honoring the wild woman within! It took years of personal development and training to establish the kind of self awareness and self mastery required to teach what I do now and my desire is that my clients see results in the least amount of time possible; I am here for your transformation!

Are you ready to stop denying yourself of what you’re worth and take the leap towards an exponentially more satisfied you?

Ashley Encantada is a life and intimacy coach helping every day people find erotic fulfillment and outstanding relationships so they can realize their dream lives, powered by pleasure and possibility.

She helps her clients get what they want out of life, love and sex by guiding them into their deepest desires, even when they don’t know what they want or how to say it.

Ashley’s experience includes studies in identity, psychology, mediation and research at The California Institute of Integral Studies, Kundalini Tantra training with the Bharat Heritage School in Rishikesh, India, Hatha Yoga Training with Mark Whitwell & Heart of Yoga in Indonesia, Healer Training & Energy Activation through Reiki, Alsemia, Ashati, Seichem and Golden Dragon (Levels 1 & 2) at Ashati Institute & The Renegade Mystic and membership with The Change Management Institute, both in Sydney, Australia.

Working with Ashley will assist you to access new levels of consciousness and shape your reality from a powerfully authentic, unique vibration only accessible to you. You will find more exciting, inspiring, empowered partnerships and have a juicier and more fulfilling sex life because Ashley unlocks past pains and turns them into Power and Pleasure!

Tantra for better sex.

Have you ever heard that only 25% (or less) of women experience orgasm during sex with a male partner? Did you know there is more than one type of female orgasm? I get women out of their fears and into their exquisite bodies so they can receive the limitless pleasure they want and truly deserve! Your age, body type and sexual orientation are irrelevant.

Intimacy Coaching & Dating

I help women find erotic fulfillment and outstanding relationships. Is your sex life dull or inhibited be your insecurities? Are you on a dating merry-go-round, constantly finding yourself in jaded about dating, settling for less than what you really want or in underwhelming relationship scenarios? I’ve been there, done that and I got out! Want to bring the passion, desire and fun back into your love life but not interested in a group setting? I love working one on one. If this is you, contact me or set up a free 30 minute discovery call to see if we’re a match.

Testimonial:

“Ashley is a warm, open and dedicated teacher and guide to deeper connection, from tapping into your personal sensuality to sharing a deeper intimate connection with a partner(s). Ashley is dedicated to helping others find healing, and ultimately joy, around sexuality and intimacy. She provided me with gentle advice and tips to use while continuing on my journey toward healthier intimacy, while helping me work on reframing my limiting beliefs around intimate relationships. After working with Ashley for a few sessions, I felt a shift in my negative mindset and felt more positive, open, and empowered while engaging with a new relationship successfully.”

— Meghan S

If you find yourself in dead end relationships over and over again, feel calling in real, passionate love is impossible or your sex life is dull, repetitive, depleting and/or boring whether you're in a relationship or single, we can turn it all around.

After working with me, you’ll attract mates who've done the work to be a better partner to you, discover your own unshakable confidence and embodied self worth, experience increased personal fulfillment and access heightened levels of pleasure states with ease. All of this is done with single individuals and couples.

Through my signature Goddess Alchemy & the Seven Portals approach, you will experience profound breakthroughs, you will unleash and unlock your multi-orgasmic potential, manifest greater depths of intimacy in your relationships and master a lifestyle powered by pleasure.

I integrate tantric tools, spiritual wisdom and evidence based relationship skills to help people elevate their intimate experiences and master their pleasure.

Men learn to extend and expand their pleasure potential with an equally powerful and innovative approach to sexual and psychological health, learning the skills to transform desire from fizzled out to smoldering hot, in between and outside of the sheets.

Areas of Work:

• Sex & Intimacy Therapy (with partner)

• Sex Therapy (individual)

• Women’s Empowerment Coaching

• Lack of Libido, Libido/Desire Discrepancy between partners

• Erectile or Climax Issues

• Empowered Self-Pleasure Coaching

• Building sexual confidence (Men)

• Building sexual confidence (Women)

• Building sexual confidence (LGBTQ+)

• Building sexual confidence (Trans)

• Dating Coaching

• Workshops

• Intensives

• Difficulty reaching orgasm (all genders and sexes)

• Relationship Coaching

• Sexual Empowerment Coaching

• Life & Goal Coaching

• LGBTQ Sex Therapy (Individual)

• LGBTQ Sex Therapy (Couples or Partners)

• LGBTQ Couples Counseling

• Polyamory & Consensual Non-monogamy /Alternative-Relationship Types

• Divorce or Break up Support, Practical Solution Focused

• Very Low Sexual Experience

• South Asian (Indian) Individuals and Couples

• Unique Cultural Issues, Indian / American Couples

• Tantra Philosophy

• Sacred Sexuality

• Dating and Sexuality after Divorce

• Problematic Sexual Behaviors (some people call it addiction)

• Learning how to talk about sex with partner(s),

• Online Coaching

• Online Individual, Online Relationship Coaching

• Online Couples Coaching

• Body Image Issues

• Heath & Nutrition

• Yoga and Movement

• non-duality

• goal focused short term work

• Sex Worker Competent

• Social Justice Lens

• Healing Shame

• AASECT en route

• Sexological Bodywork