About Jessica

Jessica is a sex, relationship and creativity coach in San Francisco Bay Area but also serves other communities online. She is dedicated to supporting people in awakening their sexuality and igniting their passion and creativity. Her work is grounded in the belief that erotic energy is the pulse beating beneath vitality, productivity, and creativity.

Where many people see sex as an obligation, or an indulgence reserved for those who have more time or less responsibilities, Jessica prioritizes pleasure. She helps her clients become better partners, inspired artists, compassionate managers, and patient parents — more expansive, realized version of themselves — by helping them connect with their erotic expression.

She brings 20 years of interdisciplinary art-making as well as a certification in a Somatic Based Sex and Relationship Coaching Method to her work with artists, innovators, executives, parents, and entrepreneurs. 

Whether you’re on a personal journey of enhancing erotic pleasure, or are hoping to bring more energy and excitement into your sexual encounters, Jessica is dedicated to supporting you along the way. 

Jessica finds special joy in supporting mothers and birthing people. From the wild first months of the postpartum period into the balancing act of raising older kids, she guides them in pursuing their own professional and artistic dreams. A breast cancer survivor herself, she supports individuals in connecting to their sexuality during treatment, recovery, and remission phases of cancer care.

Unlocking your erotic expression—your unique map of turn-ons and inspirations—frees up immense generative energy. Yet many people see sex as an obligation, or an indulgence reserved for those who are younger, or who have more time, or less responsibilities. If you’re feeling stuck, stagnant, disconnected or disassociated— a stranger to your own body and sensual impulses, you are not alone. Most human beings are gripped by shame and taboo, which cuts us off from the immensely powerful source of life force energy that is always available to us. This potent current uplifts and inspires as much out of the bedroom as it does between the sheets. Just as you tend to your physical health with good food, water, and movement, your sexual well being requires attention, too. Nurturing your sexuality can help you become a better partner, an inspired artist, a compassionate manager, a patient parent—a more expansive, realized version of you. Once you have reclaimed your sexual sovereignty and are in open communication with this part of yourself, you will move through the world with more confidence, ease, and grace...and people will notice. Whether you are on a personal journey of enhanced erotic pleasure or are hoping to bring more energy and excitement into your sexual encounters, I look forward to supporting your exploration. I am passionate about helping my clients unlock their erotic expression and explore all of their sex and relationship goals. 

-Jessica Habie, San Francisco Sex Therapist

Some of the topics and themes I explore in my Somatic Based Sexuality Coaching practice are:

• Helping partners build a bridge between differing sexual needs and desires

• Low desire and sexless relationships

• Sexual “dysfunction” and performance anxiety

• Inability to engross in sex and distractibility

• Difficulty experiencing orgasm

• Exploration of different types of orgasm

• Reconnecting and repairing after a loss of trust

• Understanding different relationships structures and choices

• Dating, seduction, and erotic embodiment skill building

• Reconnecting with desire after a birth of a child, medical diagnosis or relationship separation

• Celebratory exploration of sexual fantasies and kink

• How to discuss your erotic desires with a partner or partners

• Body shame and disconnection from the body

• Sex and relationship tools for cancer patients and survivors

• Erotic empowerment for mothers and birthing people